Thursday, October 2, 2008

wk36

I couldnt really sleep well at night as Baby Jade seems to be practising karate kicks and punches in my womb. They do cause some discomfort and sometimes even pain. Her kicks are so powerful today that I wonder if it is a good idea to enrol her to Teawondo or Karate. hehe.. Me and Alvin want her to at least take up a martial art be it Chinese kungfu(following Uncle Andy's footstep), Taewondo(following Uncle Wisely's footstep) or Karate (following Uncle Pat's footstep). Back to the story, sometimes her movements are so vigorious like I wonder if it is the so-called contractions??? I saw movements on my tummy so I guess its my baby shifting herself and not contractions right?

When I told mum about Jade's movements, she mocked and said, "She don't want to stay in the fatty tummy. It must be very cramped inside." yah, my tummy is supposed to be cramp! but fatty?! *hrumpf* this is my first baby... of coz my womb is not too stretched and seasoned.

Last week and this week, Jade's daddy is working night shift. As my tummy is getting bigger and bigger, moreover, his friends' been telling him that since Jade is already 2.7kg, she may popped out anytime. This really worries us. *sweat*

But I hope she can stay inside for at least another week as my mum has hurt her shoulder and has not recovered and I felt really bad. She was helping us to wash and tan Jade's clothes which I think that is why it takes so long for her to recover. I tried to help but she scolded me and say if anything happen to me, that would be worst as no one is at home to help. Rightly.. a lady in her mid forties with sprained shoulder and a frail pregnant woman.

Anyway, today mum has helped me washed the last batch of Jade's stuff and here's some photos of her cuties:

Guess, we got her too many pinkies..

Her playpen has been set up. Playpen's a gift from Aunties MeiHui, Angel, Germaine and Uncle Alex. Its a bit messy though. But the mattress sheets and pillow sheets and stuff will be nicely put up before she and me discharged frm the hospital... still some more days to go..

geez.. i think that's all for today.. I am kinda sleeply. *yawnz*

Wednesday, October 1, 2008

Wyeth Gold Club Pregnancy Newsletter: Month 9

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This month is all about getting ready for the big day. You need to pack your hospital bag and keep it somewhere handy, ready to go at a moment's notice. You may also want to wash everything your baby will be wearing in a mild detergent before packing it so it's ready to use when she's born.


Here's a checklist of some things you might want to pack:
Your hospital bag
Front opening nightgowns or loose-fitting casual outfits
Nursing bras and breast pads
Panties that you won't mind throwing away if they become stained
Robe
Slippers
Toiletry bag including toothbrush, toothpaste, deodorant, soap, hairbrush, shampoo, make-up
Sanitary pads
Loose-fitting clothes for going home
Cash


Your labor bag
Your birth plan
Old nightgown or t-shirt for giving birth
Vaseline and lip balm
Lotion or massage oil
Socks
Radio or CD/tape player

Your baby's bag
Sleep suits
Undershirts
Diapers
Sweater, coat, hat, socks, mittens for the journey home
Baby blanket
Car seat (you might not be allowed to take your baby home in a car without one!)

Dads need a bag for the hospital too, so get packing! You might want to bring :
Layers of clothes that can be removed or added
Toothbrush and toothpaste
Snacks and drinks
Watch or clock with second hand for timing contractions
Games/books to keep you both occupied during labor
Camera or video camera WITH film or tape
Coins or phone cards. (Use of mobile phones is usually restricted to outside the hospital building)
List of names and numbers: her parents, yours, and so on
Pen and paper to write down details of your baby's vital statistics


And don't forget to stock the freezer and cupboards with easy to prepare meals for when you return home!

My baby..

At week 36, your baby is around 46 cm and weighs 2.5 kg. She has beautiful eyes and her head has dropped into your pelvic cavity. By week 40, she's completely ready to be born, although she's unlikely to arrive on the due date. Only 5% of babies give their parents this satisfaction!

Wednesday, September 24, 2008

wk34

I went to see Dr Lim on tuesday. I was told by him that my water retention is not too bad, even though I felt that my swollen fingers and toes are quite sore. Mum mocks that I am just fat and is not due to water retention.

Another thing I am concerned is my heavy v. discharge. It is too wet and Dr Lim did another test with my sample. We will only know the results on our next visit which is two weeks later.

As usual, he looked at my protein level from the urine test, he would advice, "rest 8-9 hours a day even if you are not tired." which is what I did recently. I think I rest more then 9hours... hmmm i still need MORE rest. Mum is very nice to me. I didnt do any house work and sometimes hubby or mum bought my breakfast. but i try to take a stroll in the evening or go out for lunch to walk about.

As we took the scan, Doc announced Jade to be 2.7kg, which is normal to big for the baby same period as her. So I REALLY have to cut down on sugary sweets stuff and eat more protein and veggie! other than that, he said everything is ok and see us 2 wks later. haha.

He wrote us a letter for admission in case Jade's decided to arrive early. Symptoms like water bag burst, menses-like red discharge, severe tummy pain we have to call the emergency. I hope I heard everything right... coz I am having very bad memory since pregnancy...

And as usual, we left the clinic merrily. The wait for Jade's arrival is filled with excitement and slight fear. I wonder if I can really handle the newborn. Hopefully Jade is cooperative and mummy-friendly.

This week, my mum is exceptionally eager and she helps me washes Jade's clothes, napkins and towels etc. She even asks us to get the confinement herbs ASAP. Maybe she is anticipating Jade's early arrival, though we told her that Doc says that Jade may stick to the EDD which is end oct.

There's things which we havent buy yet:

1. J&J baby wash & lotion & oil

2. nail cutter (dunno which brand to get) - maybe pigeon

3. Home Slipper ( Mum says I need this for confinement)

4. nipple cream (dunno which one to buy. Read in some books that we can also squeezed some milk and apply on the nipple and air dry. This is good for sore/cracked nipples.)

5. Baby comforter ( we will be using play pen for the time being as we may be shifting. After the shift, we may get a cot.)

6. Disposable Diapers ( for night use. I also dunno what brand to buy too. Mum says that drypers is good enough, it did not give my baby bro any problem. Maybe diff baby diff kind of sensitivity and preference.)

Tuesday, September 16, 2008

Jade's Stuff - Part 1

Now Mummy is at wk 33/34. Est 4-6wks to Baby Jade's arrival!

Jade's been receiving gifts from Mummy's friends and relatives...

1. Urban Walker - Aqua. - gift from Great Aunt Catherine & Great Uncle-in-law Brandon

2. Fisher Price Infant-to-Toddler Rocker. Gift from Great Aunt Michelle.

3. Mummy's spree & online shopping from Babymallonline, Jshoppers, SMH forum bulk purchase/spree etc. Mummy bought some wash clothes, giraffe bibs, unisex rompers, socks etc.

4. Courtesy Gifts of tollyjoy bottles from Auntie Judith! Now Jade has so many colours to choose from! The avent bottle was given by the antenantal course with Mrs Wong from TMC. and Daddy bought Jade the pacifier...

5. Jade's toileteries! Some were sample packs. Mummy is going to buy some J&J as recommended by Mrs Wong. She commented that Pigeon is too bubbly, may not be so good for baby's skin. Maybe Mummy will use the kodomo herself. kekeke.... Just remembered, Mummy has not bought the Avent Barrier Cream yet. cost abt $17, was highly recommended by Mrs Wong.

Here's some bottles, pigeon detegent(to wash baby's clothes and hand-me-down), her stroller's fan, mattress cover, cotton wool etc. most of these and baby's basic were bought from Cheong Choon.

these were from Cheong Choon too.

6. Daddy & Mummy bought these from Mrs Wong. The bath towel is supposed not to get moulds & the swaddle blanket will not flared? ** i forgot what is the word she used. anyway, they are supposed to be of very good quality and baby-friendly!

7. Gift from Auntie Daylily aka Pei Ling. very lovely pink set.

8. Grandma Sandy found this long lost yet brand new ThermoScan at Great Grandma house in Tampines. Mummy got this from dunno where and has forgtten about it, until Grandma Sandy dig this out for Jade. Its never been use and Mummy has tested it to be in perfect condition. Heng ah, don't need to spend on the expensive thermometer. A pigeon's one cost about $70 too..

9. actually Jade's still got a box of baby's stuff from my in laws' friend. It was really a boxful of baby girl's basics, very pretty pair of princess shoes, napkins, rompers etc! Mummy will find some time to take the photo...

10. Also Great Grandma has handmade some dresses for Jade. They are really lovely but Mummy has yet to take the photo too. Grandma Sandy bought the baby essentials like the ru yu oil, lots of towels, handkies, some mittens, some dresses....

11. I got a hand-me-down Avent pump for spare from Grandma Sandy's friend, though i will be getting a manual avent pump.

12. Auntie MeiHui, Angel, Germaine & Uncle Alex got Jade a Babycraft Playpen-Orange.

13. Grandma Shirly wants to get Jade a cot.. but Daddy is comtemplating to get one now as we may be moving back to SengKang in Jan 09 and we can use the playpen temporary. But anyway, we have chosen a white baby cot. Its just a matter of time if we are gog to order it. :) oh, and if we really order the pretty white cot, we may be getting the classic pooh mattress cover set too! so pretty...

thanks for all the gifts and kind wishes... Mummy is now resting at home waiting for Jade's arrival.

Monday, September 1, 2008

what Wyeth Nutrition's Pregnancy Calculator Tells me...

Your Conception Date is(Approximately two weeks before your next menstrual period. You're in your First Trimester (weeks 1-12) 04 February 2008
Your baby's heart is beating, and the head, chest, and abdomen are beginning to form. 03 March 2008
The end of the first trimester - your baby's eyelids are obvious, tiny fingernails and toenails are present, joints contract, and your developing baby can suck and swallow. 14 April 2008
Ultrasound devices can detect a heartbeat at this point, and the fetus can curl its tiny fingers into fists. 28 April 2008
Your baby's teeth are forming in the jaw, and growing musculature is resulting in even more vigorous activity. You will now start to feel these movements as tiny flutters against your abdomen. 09 June 2008
Your baby's lungs have matured to the point where the fetus could breathe on its own outside the womb. 07 July 2008
Your baby is ready to be born. When baby is awake, the eyes are open and can discern light. Fingernails and toenails are so long that they will need to be cut shortly after birth. 27 October 2008

Tuesday, August 12, 2008

Law of Attraction

I wonder if I talk to my baby everyday, counting down the days and weeks with her, will make her arrival day more predicable. What I am really thinking is that I want my baby to arrive on the wk39. Not too early or too late. Since last week, I have been telling Jade, we have 'how many' days and 'how many' weeks more. Hope it works.

I have also been trying to tell Jade that "when mummy is pushing, you must help too." Hoping that her assistance will make my labour easier.

What do you think will this works?