Jade's latest update

1. After really trying super hard... We managed to wean Jade off bedtime latch on. We hung on for a week! n it really pays off. Now when Jade seems sleeply at around8-9pm, we will bring her to bed, give her a little breast milk, play with her a while, cuddle n carry awhile, sing a bit, and then we can put her onto bed to pat her to sleep.

Last time, we always have to struggle to get her to bed and she always demand to be latch on. Now I only let her taste a bit, sometimes dun need to drink... I will cuddle, carry and sing... I think this is so much better. I hope she can sleep in childcare easily too.. (this is another story.. haha)

2. Jade is trying to feed herself.. and is doing quite well.. I always gave her a spoon and bowl and she always make a mess.. until recently, she can aim really well. and she is eating happier too.. maybe because she finds it easier too? She usually says "Jade jade eat!" she will open mouth and say, "Ah UM" and start to chew her food... still she keep changing the spoon to her left hand. but she cant scoop well, so sometimes she uses her left hand to put the food into the spoon and take the spoon using right hand to her mouth...

3. Jade really detest her stroller... She will scream and yell, "help!! help!" as if someone trying to kill her and jump on her stroller... anyway i ordered a piglet stroller and is coming in 2weeks time, I hope she likes it.. else it is difficult to bring her anywhere... she is now 10kg.. n 82cm.. no change since 3wks ago...

4. Jade's teeth. four front teeth are out and the others are halfway through, now only the molars still no news... I guess it will be a horrific experience because she just gone through a round of teething of 4-5 teeth. they cut out of her gums at the same time causing her to have low fever, complete loss of appetite and super crazy bad mood. I spanked her a few times only thinking she is throwing tantrums.. mum ask me to feel her gums, then i realised her crankiness is due to teething and i felt so guilty...

5. Now her appetite is better... ate a lot in fact. so i try not to let her eat too much suddenly.. but good to know that she is OKAY!!!!!

6. today is her first day of childcare!!! at first Jade quite enjoy her breakfast, because i am with her. n she dun wan to join her school assembly, she walked about the cc, and keep pointing to their indoor playground. I am with her until they left the playroom abt 10plus. Teacher took them into their classroom and starts to play a bit and then change diaper. then they eat lunch. slightly before they eat lunch, jade starts to cry. too many kids crying... n that most of them are new. after lunch, the teachers bath them... n jade cried thro i think. n after that they went to the classroom to play n wait to drink milk... n i went on to pick up Jade. She didnt cry when she sees me. n say bye n threw flying kisses to the teachers. but she seems so glad to see me.. hiaz.. my baby.. i m very proud of her!!! jia you!! Jade napping since 2pm.. i think she is super tired

7. just last week, then we realised Jade knows chinese of her body parts. she knows eyes, nose, mouth, hair, head, chin, cheeks, teeth, eye brow, armpit, leg, toes, fingers... but i never teach them in chinese. n my mum usually talk to her in baby language, if any... one night i say to her, "close your eyes" in chinese n I thought, "opps she dun understand" but she really close her eyes, so we try the rest in chinese. She knows where is eyes, nose, mouth, teeth, head, hair, leg, hand... wow.. hehe

Jade drank 100ml of formulae milk!!

Make friso for Jade. I told her is chocolate milk. So I put a bit of coco powder to 'change' the original color. Ta-da~! chocolate milk! Jade drank 100ml!!!!! This is a record! She never drank past 90ml.

But sequently she would only drink 40-50ml. I wonder is it because the first time I offered to her in cup n straw n the other times are in milk bottle.

Tonight I will try to offer her in cup and straw again! Wish me gd luck.

Jade bite me again...

yesterday, Jade bit me and so caused daddy n me to be extremely angry. Hence, we decided that we have to stop latching on her to sleep at night and subsequent night waking feeds too. I have been to 'nice' or ....(cant find a suitable word) to her n daddy that in order to not wake daddy up, i just let her latch on in the middle of nights. and so i think resulted in her asking for 'neh neh' everynight till now.. (she is 18mths going to 19mths old) that means I have not been sleeping properly too...

last night was an ultimate battle. she screamed, cried and begged for neh neh, I gave in and guess what she bit me again. So that's it. Even daddy claimed that she asked for it. I even thought of letting her latch on at night till she is two.. Tears streaming down to her cheeks, she demanded for nehneh desperately. I knew she was sleepy but she refused to close her eyes and lay on bed cooperatively. She jumped on the bed angrily. Finally too angry with us, she insisted me to carry her. Ok, so I carried and sing her current favourite song, "three blind mice". Tried to put her on bed a few times but she woke up angrily, crying, asking for neh neh. so I have to carry her and swing her a few times. She totally rejected daddy so he had not choice but to sit on the bed and watch. (NOT FAIR!!! haha... maybe she knew daddy has to work the next day)

I didnt know how many times I saw her closed eyes and put her down on bed and resulted her in waking up... yes the vicious cycle nearly drove me crazy. But, one last time, she glared at me reluctantly and turned over with her back facing me, she finally fall asleep! Yeah~

It was crazy! I think we struggled for nearly one hour or more... It was mad. tiring~ to think that we are supposed to do this for the coming days... latching to sleep is definitely a breeze, minus the bites and taking my nipples for granted.

tonight, we tried the same thing while we were watching Shrek on channel 5, Jade started to get restless. Daddy suggested giving her some cereal for putting her to bed which she totally rejected it. Keep asking for nehneh, and i suggested giving her some warm formula milk. I made her some enfalac which in the end she drank 30ml of the 250ml... Great! She held the bottle herself as Daddy carried her, rocking her and even singing her "three blind mice". Thought she gave in, then she suddenly sat up from her cradle position. Baffled, I took over from daddy and swinging gently, singing to her again...

As usual, she ask for nehneh, cannot be put down. Tried a few times. But tonight seemed easier. She was not as angry as yesterday. She was in fact more cooperative. She insisted that I carried her. Even I sat on the bed, carrying her, she was fine. I cannot ask for more. I think this was in fact very much better than i thought. She fell asleep in my arms a little before 10pm.

the new problem now is if she wants to be carried to sleep. this is also very tiring... she is now 10.2kg... carry a 10kg a few mins is okay... but not too long.. mummy will be very tired.

I hope tomorrow will be easier... and please dont wake up tonight darling, Mummy love you~!

Jade n Jabs

Jade had two jabs ytd. A booster n a flu jab. Didnt cry, very brave. Doc Zainal suggested to us to start potty training. He says no sweet n no Milo for now. Need to let the grandmas know as they r very keen to give sweets to Jade.�

Now she is down with fever. :(�

Ytd she was alright.... Hope she get well soon.�

Jade n Raisin

Jade's been snacking on raisins since starting of this week. My friend gave her 1yr old boy some raisins in bread pudding which prompts me to start giving her some dry fruits for a change.

she's loving it and can exchange a latch on session with raisins! but after a while, she will still come back for a mini latch on. must be her itchy gums!!!

i was wondering if snacking on too raisin is bad for toddlers. and below are some of the findings from the internet. i didnt know i m posing such risk to Jade! usually i does research on the food that i m going to introduce to her but this is really negligence on my part.

positive
healthy snack as it is a good source of iron, fibre and potassium, and other antioxidents

negative
tooth decay(if left stuck in teeth), may cause cavities
potential choking hazards

suggestions
some sites suggest to soak in water and puree the raisins, add to cereal or other food.
take organics raisins(as those that are not organics may contains pesticides)
wait till child is three-four years old, they can chew n swallow better.
brush teeth after a raisin snacking, or rinse it down with water to prevent it sticking on teeth


references
http://www.homemade-baby-food-recipes.com/when-can-my-baby-eat-raisins.html
http://www.ehow.com/how_2085803_know-baby-can-eat-raisins.html
http://www.babycenter.com/408_when-can-my-baby-eat-raisins-and-dried-fruit_1368500.bc
http://parenting.ivillage.com/baby/bnutrition/0,,3wbn,00.html

Jade n breastfeeding

i m still breastfeeding my girl whom is 17mths old this week. its really despairing to quit it!

coming this week, i will try again to cut down her latching on session. now is abt 3 times a day n many times in the night... guess it is due to her teething and so it disrupts her sleep again!!! why does it has to happen when she is sleeping through the night!!! last time when i dun let her latch on, she will just whine a bit and sleep on my tummy, now she will cry n cry n cry.. then as usual i cant bear for daddy to be distrupted in his sleep, so i have to latch her on again!!!! coming this week, i dun care!!!! sorry daddy!

actaully i m very confused. should i stop bf in the day session first? when only two of us alone at home, there is nothing much we can do. morning, clean up, eat breakfast, watch disney channel(word world, mickey mouse club house, handy manny), go market, nap(latch on), wake up to eat lunch, rest n play toys, bathe, play, nap(latch on), wake up to play, watch tv,, eat tea break if still early, play again, eat dinner, wait for daddy to come back and play, latch on (when nothing to do)

hiaz... see... basically she has nothing much to do.. even when i try to teach her stuff, we can only focus for about 10-15 mins, then we play cooking, shapes, doctor, drawing... try to offer her water bottle to drink, she will push away angrily. offer her snacks? she eat a bit and then she will insist to latch on.

last evening, i offer her some raisins. and she is like hooked on it! keep asking for it.. but after awhile she still wants the breast milk... guess i have to be really consistent on my part.

at least if she latched on, she will nap.. for goodness sake, i really dunno how to let her sleep if i dun let her latch on. guess i need professional help???? i wonder if parent craft in thomson medical center can advise me on this?

jade is going to cc in june when she is 20mth old. should i wean her totally off my breast before cc? or let her latch on in the day and night? i really really want to say gd bye with night latching. argh.... am i over-pampering both my both precious!!!???

until now my menses has not come back yet which is still normal as per my gynea. i m going to see him this april. maybe i will fix an appt with the parentcraft too.

jade n friends with photos..

sometimes i update with my iphone so some of the blogs has no photos n usually i m lazy to load photos too.. :P

anyway, here's some photos of Jade with her friends during her one of her breakfast.. she's still in pyjamas. usually i will only change her after her breakfast.